Masculinity

 

THE DEFINING CHARACTERSTICS OF MASCULINITY IS 

 Self- awareness

 Courage

 A solid moral code

 A playful sense of humor

 Confidence

True masculinity is about using your male strength to benefit those who need it. Making your family feel protected and loved and supporting you friends.

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Here's to all the real men out there

Boys play house

Men build homes

Boys shack up

Men get married

Boys make babies

Men raise children

A boy won't raise his own children

A man will raise someone else's

Boys invent excuses of failure

Men produce strategies for Success

Boys look for somebody to take care of them.Men look for someone to take care of

Boys seek popularity

Men demand respect and know how to give it

PRINCIPLES OF HUMILITY:

 

Know yourself - know what you Can and cannot do. If you know your limitations, then there is nothing desirable about getting out of your league and doing Something for which you are not qualified, This makes it easier to take Compliments for things that are deserved

The principles humility are very powerful it’s void of pride. Humility is what Jesus stressed we should have, if we had better relationship with god. We would have better knowledge about humility. The main thing that keeps a person from becoming the person who God wants him to be is assonance.

A humble person

 Is receptive to new learning 

 Makes more friends and it helps

 Have less enemies and it helps

 Is Empathetic, which is great for your inner 

peace and health.

However, a humble person may not always be successful person in life living attainments. Humility somehow also makes you more compassionate and therefore less competitive and less into one upmanship; which are somehow key ingredients for traditional or popular success in Contemporary milieus.

Humility Vs Humbleness

 

Both the words mean the same thing whereas the accord humble is an adjective. To describe one’s quality, the word humility is a noun denoting a person who is not self- obsessed and has moderate view about himself. Being humble is not an impossible task. Some, people are naturally humble and modest, while others can work on it. 

According to me a humble person.

 Will be honest.

 Will have good manners

 Will never lie

 Will be a good listener

 Will appreciate others

 Will never take full credit for anything 

done well

 Will be helpful

 Will never brag

 Will have good self esteem

 Will never think about being the best 

person around.

Consciousness

 Still less pure energy form which can neither create nor imagine anything but only act as a medium through which the mind can interact with others and experience pleasure and pain is called the body.

For better understanding 

Ask yourself few questions.

1. Is the body you'rs or are you the body? 

2. Is the brain you'rs are you the brain?

3. Is the heart you’rs or are you the heart?

4. If your skin gets a cut what do you say -

my skin cut or I am cut?

If it’s our body it's our heart and it’s our brain then who are you? 

You are a soul - an energy which lives eternally.

Hence, our body and our soul are different.

It is said that a soul changes a body as a human changes its clothes.

WHY DOES GIVING FEEL SO GOOD?

 

I absolutely believe humans feel better when giving. I know when I am in my low feelings the best thing for me is to serve others.

As humans, we are nothing compared to other animals in our habitat like bears, lions or Cheetahs the only way, we can protect ourselves and survive is to worktogether. Our biology encourages us to help other people. So, our group can stay strong. If humans are not encouraged to give and help others, we may keep all resources to ourselves and that’s terrible for group survival.

Learn that whole life is giving. We Come with clenched fists but go with open palms. 

Generosity is something that awakens a bit of true self. When you have a genuinely generous impulse, you're hearing a bit of true Self Speak. True self grows, larger, when you respond to it and grant it validity, and it is the source of feeling whole and alive.

Knowledge

 

Knowledge is defined as "the state or fact of knowing" (Oxford dictionary). Thus, education is the means or process by which we obtain knowledge, what we retain and know. Without some sort of basic education such as reading, writing, and computing, you cannot enhance your knowledge. Knowledge building can begin at a young age independently by reading books, attending seminars, participating in quiz competitions, and such other activities. Knowledge is what makes your work productive and education is what keeps you busy.

Knowledge is like that infinite balloon that can be stretched forever. It isn't counted in basic needs.Knowledge is like water that satisfies our soul's thirst. Knowledge is the use of education to  acquire new information about life, nature, and everything else.

Education

Education can change behavior, attitude, values, etc. It helps one to find his talent. As a whole, education means all-round development which includes physical, mental, emotional, social, socio 

cultural, moral, etc. Hence, it is the most important element in the evolution of the nation. Without education, one will not explore new ideas of creativity. Education is a must for a promising and secure future and a stable life.

Education is a formal process of gaining knowledge with some sets of rules and regulations whereas knowledge 

is informal and is information which someone is aware of. Education does not always give experience, but experience always educates. A degree doesn't mean someone is smart and no degree doesn't mean they are stupid. I know people with a master’s degree that cannot find their way out of a wet paper sack. They are book smart, but they can't do a thing. And 

likewise, I know people with no education, and they can tear a car apart with their eyes closed and put it back together again. Education is important. Not everyone has the chance to be educated.

 

THE UNWRITTEN SOCIAL RULES

 

❖ When playing games with children, let them win.❖ Compliment the meal when you are a guest in
someone's home.
❖ When someone treats you to lunch or dinner,
don't order the most expensive dish on the menu.
Also, treat them the next time.
❖ Step outside to answer phone calls.
❖ If someone shows you a photo on their phone,
don't swipe left or right. If they want to show
what's next, they'll do it.
❖ If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
❖ If you are about to leave a bench, but if another
person sits next to you, wait a few extra minutes
before leaving so that you don't hurt that person's
feelings.

Life....

 

Choose to make happiness your default 

mood. It’s important for your quality of life to 

know how to strengthen your ability to recover 

from sadness and feel happy again even when 

bad things happen.

 Avoid unhealthy addictions smoking, 

drinking, gambling, sex addictions. These 

addictions cost money and health they destroy 

families and jobs. If you can avoid sampling 

things like cigarettes, you can protect yourself 

from years of suffering.

 Choose healthy addictions cultivate good 

habits such as sports, music, reading, art, 

being outdoors. Find healthy things that you 

love to do that help you relieve tension, make 

them a habit.

Peace

 

Seeing life realistically and yet joyfully, despite itshaving no inherent meaning qualifies as both "unique" and "wise". You should live as if today is your last day in life and at the same time think that life will never end because you will also live on the other side when your body is dead. Think that life is important on earth but even more important on the other side. Having the "right" perspective of all at any given moment in time is the chief challenge.

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Soul

Soul is consciousness which acts as the catalyst. (i.e.) it is the proof of existence. This can be compared with presence of electricity that it’s a basic requirement for running computer system.

Soul is what you are which God gave you.

Spirituality is attribute of the spirit peace, happiness, love and compassion.

Spiritual Sanctity and righteous Virtues makes the mind meditative you along with the mind further advance on the voyage of self-discovery process. In the due course with disciple, determination and devotion. 

The following states become your reality. 

 Spiritual awakening

 Spiritual Enlightenment

 Spiritual Liberation. 

I believe soul in a Bible is a source of our life. I'm not an expert here I’m just sharing my idea or in other words. Soul simply means life.

Self - Realisation

 

Once you realise your 'true self', there is nothing left to achieve after that because you will be so complete and blissful that no other thing would matter to you.

Unpleasant situations would not be able to disturb your blissful state.

I believe that self-realization cannot have a generalized definition. It is different for every single human being. It is something which we come 

to know about through our experiences. Besides, it is a continuous never-ending process.

For me, self-realization was deciding what I really want 

to do in my life. Knowing the path which was really meant for me, though it was the path less taken and at the same 

time feeling happy about it. You can feel that happiness if you really know this is what I love doing. I realized that my capabilities are beyond what I used to think.

MANNERS

 

                

              Good manners save us your calling curd. “Even if someone has never met you before having good manners creates an instant impression with just a few polite words and impeccable manners you set the stage for your relationship with everyone.

In the chaotic stress filled world we currently live in good manners go a long way to maintaining some level of sanity and calm I’ve certainly had challenges where my good manners made me more of a target in some situations. It’s also important to remember that you should never confuse kindness with weakness.

Firstly I'd not say be like Gandhiji’s three monkeys.

It's not like you shouldn't speak bad but it's rather speak good. Secondly, understand what's social quotient. One sheet of paper cannot decide your future but the way of behavior, as a whole at this point of time will definitely decide your future.

PAST, PRESENT, FUTURE

 

Future is a mystery on which we plan things with a confidence that we will be able to do it. All out future results are in our present. 

Remember that whatever your past was it really doesn't matter.

All you have to think is about your present which will lead you to a better future.

I was going to write about the approaching future. But, had to delete my own words because while I was writing for a few moments the future arrived and passed. Nothing ever stops.

Every second is motion forward and you are not watching things pass. You are also moving.

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WHY IS POLITICS IMPORTANT ?

First of all we have to understand what politics really is, politics is taking care of the affairs of the people.

This is the correct definition of politics or what I understand this is because people elect someone to rule over them and make the things easy for them.

But now the politics is such as taking power over the people to rule over them as a dictator or politics is Seen as a career opportunity for Some people to get benefit out of it, instead of this, politics Chaptershould be taken as a responsibility to make the life of the people easy.

Yes, it is absolutely correct that human need a political system to take care of their societal affairs because if we want to live then we have to deal with other people as well. Which requires a proper system which shows as how to manage the things, how to satisfy our instincts like the social system, which deals with the relationships of men and Women, how to marry, what is the rights of a woman etc.,

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We cry but why ?

        Emotions are good. They bring meaning to life. They give us the capacity to love and to feel and to take joy in things and to passionate about something.

        Let’s first try to understand what emotion is before going to explore it’s strength. A human life basically is a reservoir of waves of sensations produced in the body by the sense organs stimulated by the external world with secretion of glands.

        These sensations are felt by the mind with the help of the brain and are recognized either as pain or as pleasure and me call them feelings. These feeling and their constitute the length and breadth of life. These feelings stored in the cells as impressions constitute the genes which are expressed or act as urge, impulses and instincts are in the mind as memories expressing themselves as thoughts.

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THE POWER OF POSITIVITY

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If you have always been in a cheerful environment and have been brought up without a struggle, then it can be easier for you to stay positive your life is the mirror of your thoughts!

Your thoughts define your life and the circumstances you are going to fall in.

Your life brings only the things your thoughts invite.

If you are positive, you’ll attract good things.

If your thoughts are negative, your life will take the same shape.

It Completely depends on you that how you want your life to be.

Thinking about life it occurs to me that negative thoughts are more prevalent than the positive thoughts. It takes some serious efforts to think positive while the Negative thoughts automatically arise in your head

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TRUTHS ABOUT LIFE

• In this society 10% of the people hold 90% of the power. Speaking less is always bonus. Here, less is more. Do not expect anyone to take care of you do it  yourself.

• People move on pretty fast, than you think. Almost 90% of your own people will turn on you. Always remember that not everyone is genuinely happy for you. Never worry about what others think of you. It’s none of your business.

• Real happiness his in being kind and helping others. Values and happiness comes from within. Falling in love with someone who isn’t

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WOMEN EMPOWERMENT

Empowering women is extremely essential for the progress of the family as well as the nation. However, Women need to realize that empowerment always comes from within. They have got to learn the art of standing up for themselves because if they won’t take a stand for themselves nobody else will. The decisions you make will shape your life. If you relinquish them all to other people you give away your ability to design what life you want to live. 

What should I do when I grow up? Should I 

take this Job? What should I do?

Should I stay?Should I go?

The more you take ownership of these decisions, the more you see that they belong to you and that the outcome has an impact only on yourself, the more capable you become, the more able, to do, to act or to accomplish what you decide you want. 

This is my definition of empowerment.

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HUMANITY

 

            Seeing life realistically and yet joyfully, despite its having no inherent meaning qualifies as both "unique" and "wise". You should live as if today is your last day in life and at the same time think that life will never end because you will also live on the other side when your body is dead. Think that life is important on earth but even more important on the other side. Having the "right" perspective of all at any given moment in time is the chief challenge.

            To understand that every one of us is having the same 'testing' and to lend a hand where possible so that we can all work together to overcome all things, that when this life is over, you can look back without regrets and understanding it was all necessary to the education of your eternal soul.

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