Life....

 

Choose to make happiness your default 

mood. It’s important for your quality of life to 

know how to strengthen your ability to recover 

from sadness and feel happy again even when 

bad things happen.

 Avoid unhealthy addictions smoking, 

drinking, gambling, sex addictions. These 

addictions cost money and health they destroy 

families and jobs. If you can avoid sampling 

things like cigarettes, you can protect yourself 

from years of suffering.

 Choose healthy addictions cultivate good 

habits such as sports, music, reading, art, 

being outdoors. Find healthy things that you 

love to do that help you relieve tension, make 

them a habit.

Peace

 

Seeing life realistically and yet joyfully, despite itshaving no inherent meaning qualifies as both "unique" and "wise". You should live as if today is your last day in life and at the same time think that life will never end because you will also live on the other side when your body is dead. Think that life is important on earth but even more important on the other side. Having the "right" perspective of all at any given moment in time is the chief challenge.

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Soul

Soul is consciousness which acts as the catalyst. (i.e.) it is the proof of existence. This can be compared with presence of electricity that it’s a basic requirement for running computer system.

Soul is what you are which God gave you.

Spirituality is attribute of the spirit peace, happiness, love and compassion.

Spiritual Sanctity and righteous Virtues makes the mind meditative you along with the mind further advance on the voyage of self-discovery process. In the due course with disciple, determination and devotion. 

The following states become your reality. 

 Spiritual awakening

 Spiritual Enlightenment

 Spiritual Liberation. 

I believe soul in a Bible is a source of our life. I'm not an expert here I’m just sharing my idea or in other words. Soul simply means life.

Self - Realisation

 

Once you realise your 'true self', there is nothing left to achieve after that because you will be so complete and blissful that no other thing would matter to you.

Unpleasant situations would not be able to disturb your blissful state.

I believe that self-realization cannot have a generalized definition. It is different for every single human being. It is something which we come 

to know about through our experiences. Besides, it is a continuous never-ending process.

For me, self-realization was deciding what I really want 

to do in my life. Knowing the path which was really meant for me, though it was the path less taken and at the same 

time feeling happy about it. You can feel that happiness if you really know this is what I love doing. I realized that my capabilities are beyond what I used to think.

MANNERS

 

                

              Good manners save us your calling curd. “Even if someone has never met you before having good manners creates an instant impression with just a few polite words and impeccable manners you set the stage for your relationship with everyone.

In the chaotic stress filled world we currently live in good manners go a long way to maintaining some level of sanity and calm I’ve certainly had challenges where my good manners made me more of a target in some situations. It’s also important to remember that you should never confuse kindness with weakness.

Firstly I'd not say be like Gandhiji’s three monkeys.

It's not like you shouldn't speak bad but it's rather speak good. Secondly, understand what's social quotient. One sheet of paper cannot decide your future but the way of behavior, as a whole at this point of time will definitely decide your future.

PAST, PRESENT, FUTURE

 

Future is a mystery on which we plan things with a confidence that we will be able to do it. All out future results are in our present. 

Remember that whatever your past was it really doesn't matter.

All you have to think is about your present which will lead you to a better future.

I was going to write about the approaching future. But, had to delete my own words because while I was writing for a few moments the future arrived and passed. Nothing ever stops.

Every second is motion forward and you are not watching things pass. You are also moving.

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WHY IS POLITICS IMPORTANT ?

First of all we have to understand what politics really is, politics is taking care of the affairs of the people.

This is the correct definition of politics or what I understand this is because people elect someone to rule over them and make the things easy for them.

But now the politics is such as taking power over the people to rule over them as a dictator or politics is Seen as a career opportunity for Some people to get benefit out of it, instead of this, politics Chaptershould be taken as a responsibility to make the life of the people easy.

Yes, it is absolutely correct that human need a political system to take care of their societal affairs because if we want to live then we have to deal with other people as well. Which requires a proper system which shows as how to manage the things, how to satisfy our instincts like the social system, which deals with the relationships of men and Women, how to marry, what is the rights of a woman etc.,

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We cry but why ?

        Emotions are good. They bring meaning to life. They give us the capacity to love and to feel and to take joy in things and to passionate about something.

        Let’s first try to understand what emotion is before going to explore it’s strength. A human life basically is a reservoir of waves of sensations produced in the body by the sense organs stimulated by the external world with secretion of glands.

        These sensations are felt by the mind with the help of the brain and are recognized either as pain or as pleasure and me call them feelings. These feeling and their constitute the length and breadth of life. These feelings stored in the cells as impressions constitute the genes which are expressed or act as urge, impulses and instincts are in the mind as memories expressing themselves as thoughts.

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THE POWER OF POSITIVITY

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If you have always been in a cheerful environment and have been brought up without a struggle, then it can be easier for you to stay positive your life is the mirror of your thoughts!

Your thoughts define your life and the circumstances you are going to fall in.

Your life brings only the things your thoughts invite.

If you are positive, you’ll attract good things.

If your thoughts are negative, your life will take the same shape.

It Completely depends on you that how you want your life to be.

Thinking about life it occurs to me that negative thoughts are more prevalent than the positive thoughts. It takes some serious efforts to think positive while the Negative thoughts automatically arise in your head

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TRUTHS ABOUT LIFE

• In this society 10% of the people hold 90% of the power. Speaking less is always bonus. Here, less is more. Do not expect anyone to take care of you do it  yourself.

• People move on pretty fast, than you think. Almost 90% of your own people will turn on you. Always remember that not everyone is genuinely happy for you. Never worry about what others think of you. It’s none of your business.

• Real happiness his in being kind and helping others. Values and happiness comes from within. Falling in love with someone who isn’t

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WOMEN EMPOWERMENT

Empowering women is extremely essential for the progress of the family as well as the nation. However, Women need to realize that empowerment always comes from within. They have got to learn the art of standing up for themselves because if they won’t take a stand for themselves nobody else will. The decisions you make will shape your life. If you relinquish them all to other people you give away your ability to design what life you want to live. 

What should I do when I grow up? Should I 

take this Job? What should I do?

Should I stay?Should I go?

The more you take ownership of these decisions, the more you see that they belong to you and that the outcome has an impact only on yourself, the more capable you become, the more able, to do, to act or to accomplish what you decide you want. 

This is my definition of empowerment.

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HUMANITY

 

            Seeing life realistically and yet joyfully, despite its having no inherent meaning qualifies as both "unique" and "wise". You should live as if today is your last day in life and at the same time think that life will never end because you will also live on the other side when your body is dead. Think that life is important on earth but even more important on the other side. Having the "right" perspective of all at any given moment in time is the chief challenge.

            To understand that every one of us is having the same 'testing' and to lend a hand where possible so that we can all work together to overcome all things, that when this life is over, you can look back without regrets and understanding it was all necessary to the education of your eternal soul.

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SMILE

 A smile means the start of optimism, hope and strength which is required to pass through all the rueful phases of life. A smile composes a personification of a lovely moment that superimposes its priority over all the latent pain and internal sufferings.

A smile means that its carrier begs to be noticed by the ones who care and wants them to acknowledge what their presence does to their state of mind.

A smile means the light to the world of darkness.

A smile means the serendipity that one experiences.

A smile means the altruism one practices for safeguarding the happiness of others.

A smile could even mean THE WORLD!

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DREAMS AND GOALS

 The factor that motivates me to work for my dreams and goals is simply an inner desire to constantly learn and improve myself. 

"If you are bored with life. 

If you don't get up every morning with a burning desire to do things 

You don’t have enough goals”.

If you're not sure about your life goals.

First of all remove all the things which distracts you or from which you get confused.

 Work upon your weaknesses 

 spend more time doing what you love  Leave your comfort zone 

 Enjoy the life more. 

 Set priorities

Don't just set specific goals. Resolve to be receptive to the opportunities life presents to you.

Dreams and goals are important 

 To work on something 

 To give life direction.

 To live a happy and meaningful life

Is it ok to have big dreams?

Absolutely yes!

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TRUE EMPATHY

 

            

        Since, I believe in Jesus Christ. I would say that Christ was the first true empath. There is an incident in the bible.

            The pharisees, brought a woman taken red handed for Adultery and asked Christ if it is right to throw stone on her to death. Jesus Christ replied “He who is without Sin may cast the first stone on her. All were touched deeply by his words, and they all left her unharmed”. My personal doubt till date is where was the man who was the part of Adultery with the woman. How Come a woman alone can Commit Adultery. Why didn't the pharisees bring the man to be punished. Because Adultery cannot be done alone It requires two people a man and woman. Hence, This is what world is all about. No one's perfect. None of us. We all do mistakes. That is why we are humans. If not we would become God. True empathy promotes compassion, diversity, open – midedness, broadened perspectives, joy, care; community, a sense of belonging Love. It eliminates greed, Selfishness, ignorance and egotism.

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FUNCTIONS OF MARRIAGE

 

 Regulation of Sex life. 

 Marriage leads establishment of family

 Provides economic, co-operation 

 Marriage contributed to emotional and intellectual inter stimulation of the partners 

 Marriage aims at social Solidarity

            In my opinion. I believe marriage is a promise to be there for this one person through every Soaring  high and crushing low life throws at you two. It's a promise to turn towards your spouse when you need help, and to never turn away when they need you on deeper levels you receive the benefits of Stability and trust within the bond between husband and wife, a team mentality where the other has your back in all Situations. This Leads to better, health, better psychological disposition and better than average  financial well-being for your family and society.

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TRUE BEAUTY

 True beauty is personified through your spirit.

Here are few examples where beauty is interpreted and lies within 

 Beauty lies in the eye of the viewer.

 Beauty is in you. It’s within you.

 Beauty is expressions of your magnificent soul.

 Beauty is something that conveys who you are.

 Beauty is not what you see with your eye.

 Beauty is truth. It requires a heart to feel it more than the eyes.

 Beauty is to see beauty in beauty and ugly.

 Beauty is a perception of your thoughts.

 Beauty is a belief that defines who you are.

 Beauty is a power to shine inside out.

 Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

 Beauty is something that calms our soul by seeing and feeling.

 Beauty is a joy giver.

“Real beauty is a book with an average looking cover but with a beautiful content inside!”

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RESPONSIBILITY

 

            Responsibility is actually a huge concept because responsibilities can be classified into many categories such as

1. Self

2. Family

3. Religion

4. Group

5. Other places where people come together

            The most important development in the early evolution of the human race was when we learned to actively co-operate with each other.This meant the division of labour. This involved each person in the group being allotted a task and his acceptance of this responsibility. This is the very basis of the individual-group relationship

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SOCIETAL RULES

         Often, we have a problem with the societal rules, which is extremely acceptable because they challenge the basic purpose of living and that is growth and development. So, whenever you think about society think of it as something which is just a state of mind, something which you can control. 

        The more you free yourself from the burden that others put on you or it seems that they put on you but they actually don't care, the happier you will be. Hence, society is a human perception that defines who you are and that again depends upon how rebellious you can be.

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MISOGYNY

 

                Women are considered as meek and at times inferior in intelligence. The real empowerment would come when we will start trusting them and their decisions.

                According to me, women empowerment is acknowledging that yes, she can think and can take responsible decisions. It is to assist them and not to take decisions for them. If you don't do this no amount of economic independence will make them empowered.

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