DREAMS AND GOALS

 The factor that motivates me to work for my dreams and goals is simply an inner desire to constantly learn and improve myself. 

"If you are bored with life. 

If you don't get up every morning with a burning desire to do things 

You don’t have enough goals”.

If you're not sure about your life goals.

First of all remove all the things which distracts you or from which you get confused.

 Work upon your weaknesses 

 spend more time doing what you love  Leave your comfort zone 

 Enjoy the life more. 

 Set priorities

Don't just set specific goals. Resolve to be receptive to the opportunities life presents to you.

Dreams and goals are important 

 To work on something 

 To give life direction.

 To live a happy and meaningful life

Is it ok to have big dreams?

Absolutely yes!

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TRUE EMPATHY

 

            

        Since, I believe in Jesus Christ. I would say that Christ was the first true empath. There is an incident in the bible.

            The pharisees, brought a woman taken red handed for Adultery and asked Christ if it is right to throw stone on her to death. Jesus Christ replied “He who is without Sin may cast the first stone on her. All were touched deeply by his words, and they all left her unharmed”. My personal doubt till date is where was the man who was the part of Adultery with the woman. How Come a woman alone can Commit Adultery. Why didn't the pharisees bring the man to be punished. Because Adultery cannot be done alone It requires two people a man and woman. Hence, This is what world is all about. No one's perfect. None of us. We all do mistakes. That is why we are humans. If not we would become God. True empathy promotes compassion, diversity, open – midedness, broadened perspectives, joy, care; community, a sense of belonging Love. It eliminates greed, Selfishness, ignorance and egotism.

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FUNCTIONS OF MARRIAGE

 

 Regulation of Sex life. 

 Marriage leads establishment of family

 Provides economic, co-operation 

 Marriage contributed to emotional and intellectual inter stimulation of the partners 

 Marriage aims at social Solidarity

            In my opinion. I believe marriage is a promise to be there for this one person through every Soaring  high and crushing low life throws at you two. It's a promise to turn towards your spouse when you need help, and to never turn away when they need you on deeper levels you receive the benefits of Stability and trust within the bond between husband and wife, a team mentality where the other has your back in all Situations. This Leads to better, health, better psychological disposition and better than average  financial well-being for your family and society.

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TRUE BEAUTY

 True beauty is personified through your spirit.

Here are few examples where beauty is interpreted and lies within 

 Beauty lies in the eye of the viewer.

 Beauty is in you. It’s within you.

 Beauty is expressions of your magnificent soul.

 Beauty is something that conveys who you are.

 Beauty is not what you see with your eye.

 Beauty is truth. It requires a heart to feel it more than the eyes.

 Beauty is to see beauty in beauty and ugly.

 Beauty is a perception of your thoughts.

 Beauty is a belief that defines who you are.

 Beauty is a power to shine inside out.

 Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

 Beauty is something that calms our soul by seeing and feeling.

 Beauty is a joy giver.

“Real beauty is a book with an average looking cover but with a beautiful content inside!”

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RESPONSIBILITY

 

            Responsibility is actually a huge concept because responsibilities can be classified into many categories such as

1. Self

2. Family

3. Religion

4. Group

5. Other places where people come together

            The most important development in the early evolution of the human race was when we learned to actively co-operate with each other.This meant the division of labour. This involved each person in the group being allotted a task and his acceptance of this responsibility. This is the very basis of the individual-group relationship

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SOCIETAL RULES

         Often, we have a problem with the societal rules, which is extremely acceptable because they challenge the basic purpose of living and that is growth and development. So, whenever you think about society think of it as something which is just a state of mind, something which you can control. 

        The more you free yourself from the burden that others put on you or it seems that they put on you but they actually don't care, the happier you will be. Hence, society is a human perception that defines who you are and that again depends upon how rebellious you can be.

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MISOGYNY

 

                Women are considered as meek and at times inferior in intelligence. The real empowerment would come when we will start trusting them and their decisions.

                According to me, women empowerment is acknowledging that yes, she can think and can take responsible decisions. It is to assist them and not to take decisions for them. If you don't do this no amount of economic independence will make them empowered.

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

 

        Anitte John is a 40-year old woman born on 18th march 1982 and a mother of two a daughter, Daniela Rose, and a Son Dave Benjamin and who are 17’ years and 10’years respectively. She has expressed her thoughts about life transparently in this book. She is a strong woman who never gives up. Hence it’s hard to break her Confidence. In the midst of the impossible scenarios She manager to follow her passion. And So determined in publishing her book for the readers to benefit in their lives. As the book contains the all required knowledge and secrets to lead a successful and happy life.

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LIFE : BLOOM WHERE YOU'RE PLANTED

        This book is dedicated to my beautiful and adorable Children, my daughter Daniela rose and my son Dave Benjamin. They are my reason that I'm strong and empowered even in the circumstances of darkness and struggles. I love you both more than life. I wish I was near you both to see you growing. I'm So proud of you deni and Benju. I Pray no mother face this situation of being away from her children.

      INTRODUCTION 

 

        My motive is to create awareness among people about life. I feel strongly that this book. Life: Bloom where you're planted has every aspects, that can transform your life and upgrade your thinking towards life’s perception. I chose this title because I felt that it is the apt title which speaks my present situation and my life. I'm blooming from where I have been planted. Even if my life seems like a gutter and mess. I proved that I can bloom from there. I made my mess a message! I have incorporated activities where you can get yourself more involved. So, that you can feel and understand more easily. I have given my best to explain in the way it reaches. Every reader to meet the level of their understanding I have communicated the spoken language to make you feel the conversation between the author and the reader (i.e.) me and you.

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EXPLOSIVE SECRETS OF LIFE

* LIFE LESSONS

* POWER OF SILENCE

* REALITIES OF LIFE

* SELF-HELP

* SECRETS OF SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE

* FACTS TRUTHS ABOUT LIFE

* INCLUDES ACTIVITY & TABLES

        This book is dedicated to my father, Pastor. G. John was a human form of love, patience, and kindness. Although my father is no longer physically present in my life, I still feel his impact every day. As he looks down from heaven, I hope he’s proud of his little girl.

        This book is dedicated to my precious and charming two adorable children, my daughter Daniela and my son Benjamin who is the reason for my breath. I will always love you both till my last breath. I wish I had the chance to be beside you both as every mother deserves to be. I also wish that one day my love will be understood.

   INTRODUCTION

I feel strongly that there are moments in everyday life that make us question what life is all about and perhaps the best way to find an answer is to take a look at our own selves. I know it's often filled with tantrums, threats, and tears. Though we battle our own demons inside, the truth is most of the time 'a loss'. It results in a loss of peace, a loss of love, a lot of joy. It also results in a loss of memories that could have been created...

This self-help book may help change all that. It is designed to make your inner self realize what's inside you and around you. In these pages, you will find a collection of facts and truths about life. Each chapter begins and ends with a quote, which helps you to open your mind more easily. I have also included some activities in some chapters. Feel free to use them or substitute one of your own. I have done my best to show you the details of life - reinforcing your concern through meaningful touch. I have communicated the spoken language to make you feel the conversation between the author and the reader (i.e.) me and you.

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Life: Love cures every curse

INTRODUCTION 

         This book Life: Love cures every curse is absolutely a blessing for every person who feels their life is a curse Trust me! The insights and truths in this self-help book about life will give you enormous strength and courage to breakthrough all your all barriers and make you begin a new journey of hope and contentment. This book will cure your every pain and curse of life. Since it is written with all love and love only! I have incorporated activities where you can get yourself more involved. So, that you can feel and understand more easily. I have given my best to explain in the way it reaches. Every reader to meet the level of their understanding I have communicated the spoken language to make you feel the conversation between the author and the reader (i.e.) me and you.