I am a woman that is the full extent of feminity. The way I am a woman is just as acceptable as the way anyone else is and any attempt to draw me into finding per formative feminity interesting is doomed to fail.
The attitude that women are naturally inferior is the one unifying herd that connects male abusers and rapists across races, cultures.
The person saying this does not respect women and get them out of your life as soon as possible and be safe.
A woman in her wholeness of feminity has no shame. Too many woman are shameful for being woman the feminine energy is the force of life. The masculine energy which is, life could not exist without the force of creation. The two are equally beautiful energies in their own right.