Vitality of Relationships

IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS

❖ Interaction

❖ Connection

❖ Emotions

❖ Attachments

❖ Attraction

❖ Communication

❖ Co-operation

❖ Service

❖ Collaboration, etc. exist. 

    All the above said things serve a purpose in a relationship be it family, friends, associates, being married, etc.

    Relationships shouldn't entail an inordinate amount of effort. If it feels like work, you are doing it wrong. The fact that at some point you may be hurt is a workplace hazard. You can also get hurt by having friends or maintaining close bonds with family. People have a built-in warning: get too attached and you may get hurt, but that's true of anyone - are you going to totally isolate yourself, simply to ensure that people don't hurt you?

 

Masculinity

 

THE DEFINING CHARACTERSTICS OF MASCULINITY IS 

 Self- awareness

 Courage

 A solid moral code

 A playful sense of humor

 Confidence

True masculinity is about using your male strength to benefit those who need it. Making your family feel protected and loved and supporting you friends.

This is a good quote going around the internet.

Here's to all the real men out there

Boys play house

Men build homes

Boys shack up

Men get married

Boys make babies

Men raise children

A boy won't raise his own children

A man will raise someone else's

Boys invent excuses of failure

Men produce strategies for Success

Boys look for somebody to take care of them.Men look for someone to take care of

Boys seek popularity

Men demand respect and know how to give it

PRINCIPLES OF HUMILITY:

 

Know yourself - know what you Can and cannot do. If you know your limitations, then there is nothing desirable about getting out of your league and doing Something for which you are not qualified, This makes it easier to take Compliments for things that are deserved

The principles humility are very powerful it’s void of pride. Humility is what Jesus stressed we should have, if we had better relationship with god. We would have better knowledge about humility. The main thing that keeps a person from becoming the person who God wants him to be is assonance.

A humble person

 Is receptive to new learning 

 Makes more friends and it helps

 Have less enemies and it helps

 Is Empathetic, which is great for your inner 

peace and health.

However, a humble person may not always be successful person in life living attainments. Humility somehow also makes you more compassionate and therefore less competitive and less into one upmanship; which are somehow key ingredients for traditional or popular success in Contemporary milieus.

Humility Vs Humbleness

 

Both the words mean the same thing whereas the accord humble is an adjective. To describe one’s quality, the word humility is a noun denoting a person who is not self- obsessed and has moderate view about himself. Being humble is not an impossible task. Some, people are naturally humble and modest, while others can work on it. 

According to me a humble person.

 Will be honest.

 Will have good manners

 Will never lie

 Will be a good listener

 Will appreciate others

 Will never take full credit for anything 

done well

 Will be helpful

 Will never brag

 Will have good self esteem

 Will never think about being the best 

person around.

Consciousness

 Still less pure energy form which can neither create nor imagine anything but only act as a medium through which the mind can interact with others and experience pleasure and pain is called the body.

For better understanding 

Ask yourself few questions.

1. Is the body you'rs or are you the body? 

2. Is the brain you'rs are you the brain?

3. Is the heart you’rs or are you the heart?

4. If your skin gets a cut what do you say -

my skin cut or I am cut?

If it’s our body it's our heart and it’s our brain then who are you? 

You are a soul - an energy which lives eternally.

Hence, our body and our soul are different.

It is said that a soul changes a body as a human changes its clothes.

WHY DOES GIVING FEEL SO GOOD?

 

I absolutely believe humans feel better when giving. I know when I am in my low feelings the best thing for me is to serve others.

As humans, we are nothing compared to other animals in our habitat like bears, lions or Cheetahs the only way, we can protect ourselves and survive is to worktogether. Our biology encourages us to help other people. So, our group can stay strong. If humans are not encouraged to give and help others, we may keep all resources to ourselves and that’s terrible for group survival.

Learn that whole life is giving. We Come with clenched fists but go with open palms. 

Generosity is something that awakens a bit of true self. When you have a genuinely generous impulse, you're hearing a bit of true Self Speak. True self grows, larger, when you respond to it and grant it validity, and it is the source of feeling whole and alive.

Knowledge

 

Knowledge is defined as "the state or fact of knowing" (Oxford dictionary). Thus, education is the means or process by which we obtain knowledge, what we retain and know. Without some sort of basic education such as reading, writing, and computing, you cannot enhance your knowledge. Knowledge building can begin at a young age independently by reading books, attending seminars, participating in quiz competitions, and such other activities. Knowledge is what makes your work productive and education is what keeps you busy.

Knowledge is like that infinite balloon that can be stretched forever. It isn't counted in basic needs.Knowledge is like water that satisfies our soul's thirst. Knowledge is the use of education to  acquire new information about life, nature, and everything else.

Education

Education can change behavior, attitude, values, etc. It helps one to find his talent. As a whole, education means all-round development which includes physical, mental, emotional, social, socio 

cultural, moral, etc. Hence, it is the most important element in the evolution of the nation. Without education, one will not explore new ideas of creativity. Education is a must for a promising and secure future and a stable life.

Education is a formal process of gaining knowledge with some sets of rules and regulations whereas knowledge 

is informal and is information which someone is aware of. Education does not always give experience, but experience always educates. A degree doesn't mean someone is smart and no degree doesn't mean they are stupid. I know people with a master’s degree that cannot find their way out of a wet paper sack. They are book smart, but they can't do a thing. And 

likewise, I know people with no education, and they can tear a car apart with their eyes closed and put it back together again. Education is important. Not everyone has the chance to be educated.

 

THE UNWRITTEN SOCIAL RULES

 

❖ When playing games with children, let them win.❖ Compliment the meal when you are a guest in
someone's home.
❖ When someone treats you to lunch or dinner,
don't order the most expensive dish on the menu.
Also, treat them the next time.
❖ Step outside to answer phone calls.
❖ If someone shows you a photo on their phone,
don't swipe left or right. If they want to show
what's next, they'll do it.
❖ If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
❖ If you are about to leave a bench, but if another
person sits next to you, wait a few extra minutes
before leaving so that you don't hurt that person's
feelings.

Life....

 

Choose to make happiness your default 

mood. It’s important for your quality of life to 

know how to strengthen your ability to recover 

from sadness and feel happy again even when 

bad things happen.

 Avoid unhealthy addictions smoking, 

drinking, gambling, sex addictions. These 

addictions cost money and health they destroy 

families and jobs. If you can avoid sampling 

things like cigarettes, you can protect yourself 

from years of suffering.

 Choose healthy addictions cultivate good 

habits such as sports, music, reading, art, 

being outdoors. Find healthy things that you 

love to do that help you relieve tension, make 

them a habit.

Peace

 

Seeing life realistically and yet joyfully, despite itshaving no inherent meaning qualifies as both "unique" and "wise". You should live as if today is your last day in life and at the same time think that life will never end because you will also live on the other side when your body is dead. Think that life is important on earth but even more important on the other side. Having the "right" perspective of all at any given moment in time is the chief challenge.

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